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A Message of Hope,
by Patricia Harness-Overley, published by Bradley Press, 1513 Red Hill North Dr., Upland, CA 91786 (1992)
A mother describes her very difficult journey following the death of her son, including her struggle with alcohol and divorce. A very honest book that tackles personal issues rarely written about.

A Mother's Story, by Gloria Vanderbilt, published by Random House, NY (1996)  This socialite author tells a tragic story and her coming to grips with her pain of losing her son to suicide with suggestions of how all of us can - and why we must - survive the worst that can happen.

A Special Scar, The Experiences of People bereaved by Suicide, by Alison Wertheimer, published by Tavistock/Routledge, NY (1991)
The author lost her sister to suicide. This book looks in detail at the stigma surrounding suicide and offers practical help for survivors. Fifty bereaved people tell their own stories, showing us that by not hiding the truth from themselves and others, they have been able to learn to live with suicide.

And Then There Was One, Our Journey From Death To Rebirth, by Margo Williams, published by Pooka Publishing,
P.O. Box 19736, Sacramento, CA 95816  The journal of a mother following the suicide death of her only child, (young adult son) written as his thoughts also pour into the pages. This connection with Matt strengthens her belief in the life beyond the physical limits of this moment.

After Suicide, by John H. Hewett, published by Westminster Press, Philadelphia, PA 1980  A classic book that is outstanding in describing the experience of grief after suicide.

Bart Speaks Out, Breaking the Silence on Suicide, by Linda Goldman, M.S., published by Western Psychological Services, Los Angeles, CA, (1999)  This interactive storybook for children gives them a road map for their grief and recovery. Bart is a vulnerable, lovable dog who serves as a role model as he (the dog) openly describes his own stages of grief and recovery after the suicide death of his owner, Charlie.

Before Their Time, by Mary & Maureen Stimming, published by Temple University Press, Philadelphia, PA (1999)  Adult children's experiences of parental suicide. A collection of first-person accounts by daughters and sons affected by parental suicide. These essays speak openly about fears, stresses, and methods of coping. Insightful and helpful.

Ben's Story: The Depression, ADHD, and Anxiety Disorder That Caused His Suicide, by Trudy Carlson, published by Benline Press, 118 N. 60th Ave. Ease, Duluth, MN 55804 ( 1998)  A mother shares the profoundly moving story of her son's life that illustrates the symptoms of depression and anxiety disorder that led to his suicide death at age 14. Book also includes 17 pages of valuable information useful for recognizing and treating at risk individuals.

Breaking the Silence, by Mariette Hartley, published by Mass Market, NY (1991)  This sensitive and witty actress has written openly and honestly. After Mariette's father died by gunshot she and her mother kept his suicide a secret for years. Once Mariette told her story she became "the spokesperson for suicide survivors" telling her poignant story over and over to help survivors and to promote the prevention of suicide.

Child Survivors of Suicide: A Guidebook for Those Who Care For Them, by Rebecca Parkin with Karen Dunne-Maxim, published by NJ Chapter of American Foundation For Suicide Prevention, (1996)  This guidebook takes the reader through the first year of questions that a child might ask. The format asks the questions, gives answers and the reasons for the answers. Extremely honest, sensitive, practical and empowering.

Dead Reckoning: A Therapist Confronts His Own Grief, by David C. Treadway, Ph.D., published by Basic Books, NY, (1996)
David's mother died by suicide and now David writes about his journey of grief after 27 years of avoidance. A profound and moving memoir revealing the many layers of pain and denial that can build up in a family after a suicide. The author finds the courage to face his ghosts, take off his protective layers and reconnect with his family.

Everything To Live For, by Susan White-Bowden, published by Poseidon Press, Simon & Schuster, (1985)  The author lost her son and husband to suicide. Deeply honest, courageous account of what happened and of the painful lessons that came to late to help her son but that can surely help others. A moving and compelling book.

Grief After Suicide (9 page pamphlet, 50¢ each)  published by Mental Health Association in Waukesha County, Inc.
S22 W 22660 Broadway, Waukesha, WI 53186-8199

Healing After the Suicide of a Loved One, by Ann Smolin CSW & John Guinan, a Fireside Book published by Simon & Schuster, New York, (1993)  A very informative book that provides suicide survivors with insights into the emotional responses they may be experiencing. The authors are direct and honest as they offer support, hope, and permission to go on with life.

His Bright Light, The Story of Nick Traina, by Danielle Steel, published by Delacorte, NY 1998  This very famous author of fiction shares the heartbreaking true story of her struggle to help her brilliant and talented manic-depressed son, Nick, find help during his troubled short life that ended in suicide in 1997 at the age of 19.

I Wish I Was In a Lonely Meadow, published by Dougy Center, Portland, OR (1990) A well-done compilation of children's feelings about and experiences with suicide.

Knowing Why Changes Nothing, by Eva Lager with Sascha Wagner, published by Options Publishing, 6 Meredith Way, Dianella W. A. 6059 Australia. (1997)  Both lost daughters to suicide. A moving diary of a grieving mother struggling to grasp the awful reality of her daughter's sudden and tragic death. The joint venture of Eva and Sascha is a landmark in the literature of bereaved parents. Sascha's poetry fit perfectly with Eva's sensitive entries.

Mourning After Suicide, by Lois a. Bloom, published by The Pilgrim Press, Cleveland, Ohio, (1986)  The author lost her son to suicide. This easy to read 24 page booklet is an excellant introduction for someone newly bereaved. It normalizes the grief and the reference to spirituality is gentle and non-invasive.

My Son, My Son: A Guide To Healing After A Suicide In The Family
by Iris Bolton with Mitchell C. Bolton, published by Bolton Press, 1325 Belmore Way N. E., Atlanta, GA 30338 (l983)
A therapist shares the story of the suicide of her son; a compelling, powerful and informative book about suicide, grief, survival, and hope that will profoundly touch the heart and provide new insights for every reader.

No Time To Say goodbye, Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One,
by Carla Fine, published by Doubleday, New York (1997)  The author shares her own journey of grief following the suicide death of her physician husband and she also integrates the voices of others who have endured the desolation of a loved one's suicide.

Silent Grief: Living in the Wake of Suicide, by Christopher Lucas and Henry M. Seiden, PhD., published by Bantam Books, NY (1989)  A survivor and a psychologist offer support and advice for getting past the grief - and moving on. This book also deals with the multitude of reasons people don't talk about suicide. C. Lucas lost his mother to suicide.

Stronger Than Death, When Suicide Touches Your Life, by Sue Chance, M.D. published by W. W. Norton & Co., NY
A psychiatrist shares the life and suicide death of her only child and her personal struggle to cope with this tragic event.

Suicide Survivors: A Guide For Those Left Behind, by Adina Wrobleski published by Afterwords Publishing, Minneapolis, MN (1991)  Helpful and insightful for suicide survivors, honest and open, easy to read.

The Sun Can Shine Again, by Orrie Snyder, RN, BS, MA, P. O. Box 41326, Sacramento, CA 95841, (1997)
The story of a son much love. Told by his mother, this is the story of a young man's struggle with the torment of a Bi-polar illness, his felony conviction and his resultant incarceration and suicide in one of our state penal institutions. It brings the reader through the terrible pain and consequences of his illness to the grace of God's abiding and forgiving love.

 

Grieving A Suicide, by Albert Y Hsu, published by InterVarsity Press, (2002)  A loved one's search for comfort, answers and hope.  After his father's death by suicide, Albert Hsu wrestled with the intense emotional and spiritual questions surrounding suicide.  The book is biblical, well reasoned, clearly presented, thoroughly researched and very personal.  www.ivpress.com

When Suicide Comes Home: A Father's Diary And Comments, by Paul Cox, published by Bolton Press Atlanta, (2002)  Paul Cox, a truck driver by trade, wrote this, his first book, at night sitting in the cab of his truck devastated by the suicide death of his son in 1998.  This is a man's book, emotional and candid, full of plain talk and an indomitable spirit.   www.BoltonPress.com

Walking Through The Valley Of The Shadow: When A Jewish Child Dies, by Mort Schrag, published by Mort Schrag, This beautifully designed and thoughtful booklet is a tribute to a father's love and his concern that very little is written for grieving Jewish parents.  This is a wonderful contribution.  Email sabamortla@aol.com

Dawning Of A New Day: A Journey Out Of Darkness, by Carolyn M Deleon, published by Inkwater Press, (2004) This is a story of healing after a spouse's suicide death.  Using her journal writings, Carolyn shares her intimate reflections and personal experiences about walking through the valley of grief.  She shares her struggles with faith and ultimately how she came to a new day in her life.  www.inkwaterpress.com

Eric's Story: Surviving A Son's Suicide, by Sandra Underwood, published by Xlibris Corp., Sandra shares her journey of grief, depression, and hope as she deals with the death of her only son, Eric.  This book also includes family pictures and poems written by Sandra.  www.Xlibris.com

Words I Never Thought To Speak, Stories of Life in the Wake of Suicide, by Victoria Alexander, published by Lovington Books, (1991)  First person accounts of parent, child, brother, sister, spouse, lover and therapist as they struggle through the pain-laden conflicted months and years of bereavement after a suicide of a loved one.



 




 

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